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Hold My Hand

2/23/2017

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One of my earliest memories growing up is a gift my dad gave to my mom. It was a watch with Mickey and Minnie Mouse on it holding hands. The watch had a cool trick. When you pressed a button on the side it played a little tune, a classic, "I Want to Hold Your Hand" by The Beatles. I heard the phrase other times in my life too. My parents held my hand when I was crossing the street, when we walked around in the grocery store. My hand was held when I went to the dentist or the doctor's office. Each time I felt uncomfortable, out of place, or needed a little reassurance, someone I loved was there to hold my hand.


In one of my classes last week, a young lady that has been married just a little longer than me made a comment that stuck with me. She said, "Newlyweds stop being newlyweds when they don't have to hold hands everywhere they go". I hope I never stop being a newlywed.

Getting married has made me feel like a kid again in a lot of ways. There are so many new experiences, new things to learn, and new roles to fill. I find myself looking for a hand to hold because I'm crossing new streets. I'm uncomfortable, out of place, and I need a little reassurance. I always find Jake's hand there for me.

Jake holds my hand each time we drive in his stick shift. He doesn't let go, not even to shift gears.  He just takes my hand with his. Our heater went out today. It just happened to be the day that winter decided to return to the warm February we've had. I walked into the house and laughed out loud. It was freezing. I hate being cold, but I was happy. I knew that the colder it was in the house, the more Jake would want to hang on to my hands.

The heater kicked back on, Jake fixed it, but he held my hands anyway. I guess that's why my little wife life is so happy.

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Crystal link
2/23/2017 05:45:30 pm

I just love your writing. It's so great to see your life from a newlyweds in love. You and Jake are the picture perfect of the Happily ever after the wedding. I can just feel the love that you have for each other. And Maddie a happy marriage is due to the little things. The holding hands, surprise date night after a long day, cuddling on the couch for a movie. And looking at your spouse as he/she is helping someone accomplish a task. Weather it's your kids and homework or a elderly neighbor with the groceries. Seeing the love and compassion they have for someone else is very sexy.
But one thing that is very important. Make time for each other. As them how their day was and listen be attentive. It will help you to continue to be a Newlywed in Love. I love you guys so much.

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Danni Horton
2/23/2017 06:37:57 pm

Nate and I have been married for 19 years on March 6th. I still love holding his hand everywhere we go. So I guess we are still newlyweds too! :) I love your writing too. Keep sharing!

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Madeline Townsend Topham
2/28/2017 09:41:29 am

Danni thank you so much for reading! You and Nate are definitely still newlyweds.

Madeline Townsend Topham
2/28/2017 09:40:09 am

Crystal thank you so much for the beautiful advice. Thank you so much for reading. I love my sweetheart and our fun relationship we're building on the little things.

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Robin Stowell
2/24/2017 03:18:56 pm

I love reading your little entry's! Keep it up, one day you'll be very happy you did!

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Madeline Townsend Topham
2/28/2017 09:38:14 am

Thank you so much Robin!

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Kyra Nielson
10/6/2021 08:31:44 am

I love these posts so much! You are an inspiration to me, and I’m so grateful to get to be in your class. I hope to find a husband as great as yours. ❤️

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